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Additionally: “Also he will have to keep large sums of cash on hand making him a prime target for robbery.”
He probably doesn’t make a lot of money. That is why he is not paying child support.
“Hires a driver. Takes car services, taxis, buses.
This cuts into the number of jobs he can take and is an added expense making the business less profitable.”
1. If he lives in EY (which he does, in Lavender’s case),many people don’t have cars and rely on busses. They are not expensive. There are also places in the US where you can rely on public transportation.
2. Nowadays, a lot of people work online.
3. If he lives in EY (which he does) since everyone lives in aparment buildings, you have many people living within a small area, so he may be able to work within his community and walk to each job. I know a plumber who does this, and I’m sure there are many other plumbers and electricians who do this.
4. He can have a job that involves all of his customers coming to him.
5. If he has a job that involves earning a lot of money per job it might be worthwhile to take a taxi.
“Okay. How does he own one of these businesses when his licenses to operate either of these businesses are suspended. If caught operating with a suspended license he will be closed down and fined.”
Many people own businesses without licenses.
Another answer to all of the above questions is that he may not have a job at all. He may be learning full-time. There have been divorced guys who were suggested to me who were learning full-time. Often, those were the cases where it concerned me that they weren’t paying child support.