Reply To: what does "Get refusal" mean?

Counselor met with us & heard us out for 2 hours. I finally got to hear why my wife is so mad at me. It was kind of dumb stuff like my fight with my son for not allowing me to hold my grandaughter. Counselor wants me in individual counseling; so maybe I have problems I’m not aware of. He said we should have gone for serious marital counseling years ago; thinks we can make it work; for it to work, the wife would have to agree to hit the reset button & give husband 4 months probation; husband would need individual counseling and wife’s attempt would have to be sincere. If the wife had no interest in making it work other than fulfilling the Sheila’s requirement to attend 5 counselings; not only did he guaranty it would not work, but he would not be able to see us because it would be unethical for him to take our money if he knew nothing good could come out of it. My wife will think it over on whether we resume counseling or not; or whether she just goes straight to the beis din & demands a Get.