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Lenny1970
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Unfortunately, my case has taken a turn for the worse. My wife is now having zero contact with me. At home, she makes her food & then locks herself in her separate bedroom. She won’t even drive with me to counseling; let alone talk to me before or after counseling. It’s the killer silent treatment. She’s just attending the 5 counseling sessions to satisfy the sheila Rabbi’s request. So I stopped the counseling sessions until she stops the silent treatment and resumes talking to me. She’s threatened to just take her case to the Beis Din to have them order me to give her a Get. I think I’m going to let her threat play out and see what happens. I don’t believe the Beis Din would order me to giver her a Get. In which case we can then go to marriage counseling and she’ll take it seriously; at least that’s my hope. If anyone has any suggestions, especially on how to get her to drop the silent treatment, I’d love to hear it. Thanks.