Many say not to go if kids are older than 10 . . .
We came with 3 daughters going into grades 10, 9, and 7. All of them, B”H, are fluent in two languages, two were in the IDF while one chose sheerut leiumi, two are now in university and working, while our “baby” is post-army and is working and thinking about life and career choices. Yes, of course, there may be problems coming with older children, but it can certainly be done. And, all are still B”H dati and shomer mitzvot.