I agree with Shlishi, but will add that the “preconceived secular corrupting notions” are in many cases learned from seminary.
If we would all follow Rav Miller ZTL and have the husband be the king and breadwinner, we would Bezras Hashem see the divorce rate drop. Its when the wife is the main earner, and tells/nags the husband “But I learned in sem….” that the relationship fails.