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Baruch10901 wrote:
My daughter was redt to a young man who we were told stutters. He only wanted to meet initially on face time & she was agreeable. The encounter was done in the privacy of her room. Well guess what- she wants to have a real date with him. I am concerned and frightened. What if they fall in very deep like and where does that leave my younger daugters?
Pardon me, but what.
The only way this makes any sense is if your daughter FaceTimed
with the boy without you having looked into him and decided that the shidduch was worth pursuing. Was that the case?
Or are you just trolling…?
He is trolling -100
TRUEBT wrote:
If you talk to people at Aish, they will tell you that they no longer think speed dating is a good idea.
However, the article linked to was about dating more than one person at a time, that is, normal dates with each one.
Speed-dating is not “dating” at all in that sense – it is meant to lead to such dating.