Aren’t there pre-marriage shalom bayis programs nowadays? Somehow, I thought there were, but I don’t know. Does anyone else know? Also doesn’t the Kallah teacher do some of that?
I think everyone probably needs it, so it is probably helpful for whoever goes even if there are others who need it more. Adraba, if the people who need it less go than it won’t be embarrassing for the ones who need it more to go.
It would be great if it becomes the norm.
Even though I think it’s important to have something beforehand, I would guess that there are things that you can only really discuss afterwards when they’re l’maaseh. I think people probably need both.