Reply To: Need some shidduch advice….

Well firstly, regarding the engagement, it was pretty clear to everyone involved that it was her fault, and that she lost something pretty good. Even this particular friend reached out to me at the time and said, im sorry you are going through this, and I know that it was out of your hands. We all know how well you treated her.

I do have a Rabbi that I am very close to, who knows her family well. My hesitancy with using a shadchan or a Rav is that I believe that her natural first reaction will be, I couldnt do such a thing! However, once thinking it through, she may really see the potential there.

Another thing that might be worth noting is that this girl herself went through a broken engagement several years ago.