Reply To: Need some shidduch advice….

therealmgama, I am sorry I havent gotten back to you. I would have rather messaged you privately, but I guess you cant do this on the site. I know its tough, and I really sympathize with the feelings you are going through. However, please rest assured that based one my expereince, I believe you are better off.

While there are a whole range of mental issues, I feel that my fathers advice to me at the time applies. He told me that marriage is going to be a roller coaster unlike any you have ever experienced, and the fact is that one of the most important things you and your wife need to have is stability. When you guys run into problems you need to have the strength to overcome them, but if the person you are married to cannot handle these problems, your life together will be very very hard.

Im sure your situation was tough, but the fact is that people you trust saw that this is the decision you must make. BH, like myself, one day you will look back and see clearly see that this was meant to happen, and something much better will come for you.