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January 4, 2017 4:17 am at 4:17 am #1207419
Mussar47
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Thanks BigGolem and Lightbrite for the vote of confidence. I agree with Lightbrite. A small gift or gesture goes a long way only AFTER starting to emotionally connect-open up. The timing has to be right. If you give something before you open up at all, it may look inappropriate or scare the girl off. Timing is everything and like Lightbrigt said, gift giving shouldn’t replace opening up. It should be there to enhance the relationship that is starting to bloom.