Reply To: Being a good shadchan

Yes. And now I feel very foolish.

Joseph +1

Still… is it okay for me to introduce people who I barely know?

I’m guessing that at least one of said individuals trusts me, and may be more trusting of the other person if he or she is met through me.

Or, maybe I begin with a disclaimer.

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PLEASE NOTE:

Based on your preferences, location, and hashkafah, I decided to give you the contact information of _____So and So___. If anything unpleasant shall occur, chas v’shalom, I absolve myself from responsibility.

You are responsible for investigating the other party, which may include asking personal questions and checking references. Please do your diligence in determining your future spouse. All I know is what this person told me, of which I passed on to you. And I don’t even know if any of this is 100% true. Thus, please assess the person, and have close advisory counsel throughout the process.

B’Hatzlacha!!!

Your shadchanit in the making,

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