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Thanks LU!

Yesterday I told someone online who I don’t know anything about except his marriage status, child status, location status, and age that if I meet someone who is on his religious level with a similar age and location I will try to connect them.

Then I thought about it and realized that I know nothing of this person.

Am I really doing Hashem’s Will or am I trying to make matches because it seems like a cool and great thing to do?

Would I really be helping people find their besherts or am I just playing with fire sending people out on a whim?

I think that there is a wiser way to do this. At least, I think I could use some help and acknowledge that I am clueless here. Plus I may not be the best judge of character and what works overall.