–Theres no heter for the kallah to come into the mens section period!–
So you want to be mevatel a mitzvah for people to be mesamayach chosson V’KALLAH?
So the Chasidish, for the most part, may hold hands after the Chupa and have a Mitzvah Tantz, the Litvish, who don’t, will hold hands in public the rest of their lives!!!
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