I understand that part of the reason for holding hands is that the man ????? the wife to his house for the first time therefor there is an inyan that he holds her hand in order to be ????? her.
In some circles where the munhag is not to hold hands as one leaves the chupa (??? ????? ?? ????? ????) often they take hold of each others hands just befor ethey enter the ??? ????.
Can nayone explain what is the ???? aspect of a ???? tantz? If it is to be ???? ???? ????, why does it need to involve a garttel or holding hands?