Golfer – First of all, there are halachic problems with what you are writing, as I pointed out before. Even if you are right, it would still be loshon hora. When you speak L”H about someone else, no matter what they did, speaking L”H is worse.
Second of all, you have completely misquoted me. I wrote, “She certainly has a right to speak to Roshei Yeshiva about it and express her opinion. As ZD wrote, “Speaking to the gedolim doenst mean shouting and screaming in public”.
Third of all, you contradict yourself. First you say that you agree with ZD, and then you claim that my saying that she has a right to speak to the Roshei Yeshiva means she has a right to shout and scream in public.
Fourth of all, (and most important), our obligation is to try to be “dan l’kaf zchus” period.