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It is I who is doing the dancing, because if I would be able to write what I want to the conversation would be over.
“You will find I said the precise same thing at the beginning of this thread.”
At the beginning of the thread you said, “If you say you need to marry someone who is a supermodel, that is a bit extreme.” Ironically, I have less of an issue with this person than you, because at least he ownes up to being shallow and doesnt hide behind misquoted Gemoras. Furthermore, this individual is only doing himself a disservice because what he considers a supermodel is not everyones definition.
“Within the normal realm, you think that it is like cheeseburgers, an inappropriate desire which can and should be controlled. I think the desire for an attractive (to you) spouse is normal, and proper.”
Clearly you did not understand my point. I have NO PROBLEM w someone wanting to be attracted to their spouse. I have a problem with you constantly saying (not verbatim): this is our nature, its how men are created, we cant help it, woman cant understand…. That is where the cheeseburger comparison came in to play.