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November 10, 2016 5:42 pm at 5:42 pm
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” His Rosh Yeshiva told him that he’s a “kofer” because Chazal say that all bnos Yisrael are pretty. “
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“Chazal also tell us that it is forbidden for a man to marry a
woman before seeing her, “??? ???? ?? ??? ????? ?????? ????.” “
That statement of Chazal is talking about a person’s preference, not an objective evaluation. The wording is “perhaps he will see something disparaging….”. It’s talking about his perceptions and nothing objective about her.
She may be beautiful, but there may be something that he does not like.