When I read that post, this is what I heard:
“Listen if there is someone with a known history and record of molesting children in the presence of my children and family members, then I am not going to go let my children and their cousins go frolic alone or in a group with this person.
I may have to tell my children and their cousins to leave this person alone, but won’t say anything that isn’t necessary.
If you think that this person is now fine to hang around children because he did teshuva, then that is your prerogative. However, part of teshuva is also making fences and guarding oneself from falling into situations.
While other posters think that it is lashon hara to ask my children not to go play with or around that grown person, since this person already did teshuva, then I guess they can judge me accordingly because I know that Hashem gave me the responsibility to guard my children and protect them, and part of that is keeping them safe from risky encounters.”
Sincerely,
Poster