ZD: I agree with you that most if not all “right wing” yeshivos try to push all students into the proverbial “cookie cutter mold” even if they don’t fit. Unfortunately not everyone has the seichel that R Shlomo Freifeld TZATZAL had to reach his talmidim on their level. Being slightly non-conformist may be tolerable and if that’s the case other students may be understanding.
However, when one is totally acting in a rebellious manner (basing my comment on what JA has stated previously) the other students tend to shy away from one who they think is a “troublemaker”.