ZD: as Mod 29 wrote:
“Looks like someone really misread a post or two. We get blinded sometimes by our own prejudices..”
While it may be true that specific people have been given a heter to shake hands in specific circumstances (I don’t know for sure if that is true, but it may be), if you reread the OP, you will see that she did not mention that she was given a heter to shake hands. Nor did she ask us for a heter (which is good because none of us is qualified to do so). She did not even say that she was looking for a heter.
I wasn’t talking to ZDAD