you ppl got it all mixed up!!!
as someone in the dating scene there r four types of girls 1. the one that only wantes to date a long term learner and struggle her whole life for torah 2. a college girl that wants a life of luxery and wants to ONLY marry a professional 3. a girl that wants to marry a learning guy but her parents cant afford so she deciedes to SETTLE and marry a working guy that learns every day and is machshuv torah 4. a spoiled brat that is either rich or since she is pretty hopes to marry rich as is a lazy brat.
so now al u gotta do is see where you stand here and figure what type of girl u want!!!!