kiruvwife:
For #3: Know a situation where the boy wants to learn, gets accepted to great yeshiva. Parents refuse to pay, want boy to go to college, but will fill out tuition form. Filled out scholarship form, they make too much. Boy refuses to work/tutor in school, says will take away from hasmada!
What does one say to that 🙁
Also for 1&2: if everyone followed your advice, there would not have been a financial crisis. How can you expect that from Yeshiva boys who never learned math and don’t understand the value of money?