Reply To: Shidduchim for those with a past

I agree with FuturePOTUS that many times people who have been off come back stronger in their yiddishkeit than many others, in regards to what bmyer’s sarcasm about how everyone should go off -i dont think anyone was suggesting that, obviously if everyone went off that would make for a ton of aveiros and probably the majority would not end up coming back like Bochur 2.0, but that doesn’t mean that if someone did go OTD and come back he wouldn’t be stronger than most in some regards, after all he clearly is not just serving hashem because thats how he grew up or thats what everyone else is doing.