I do think that you will be happier with someone who understands what you got involved with and why you left it, etc, from her own experiences, like a BT or someone who grew up more modern and became more frum. Shadchanim who deal with girls like that are probably a better address for you. But most importantly, DON’T LOSE HOPE. The right girl is out there for you. It may take a little longer to find her, but this is all part of the big plan. HBK”H loves so much the hard work you put in to turn your life back around, He won’t abandon you. Your tefillos will be answered at the right time. Since you’re not really so old, it could be that your future kallah just has to do some more work on herself to be ready to get such a terrific shidduch.
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