ema2five what you said about boys having to give girls a chance is in an ideal world a very nice suggestion, however when a boy is deciding who he wants to marry and is trying to find the right one, ultimately he is going to be dating whatever girl he really thinks is the most likely to be the right one, boys are not going to go out with someone just as a chesed. Until boys are really convinced that girls from different backgrounds might actually be the right ones for them then they wont waste their time, (and on the boy’s end money too) just making a girl feel good that she got a date. I think that we need to start educating boys about the fact that these girls may be just as good for them and only when they really understand that could we blame them for being heartless and prejudiced.
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