btw, I don’t know how most girls feel, but personally I am always hesitant about dating a boy who does chessed round-the-clock.
And having a life full of activities, hobbies and volunteer work would probably entail the same problem (although I don’t believe that anyone has ever redt a boy with that description to me).
Which is that I am not really interested in a husband who is never home and never available for his family.