🙂 okay, you convinced me.
So I was in a store in Monsey once, and I overheard two Chassidish men talking. One of them was telling the other about a mutual friend of theirs whose wife had been trying to get him to stop smoking. Finally, one day she said to him, “if you don’t stop smoking, I’m going to start.”
The next day he came home to find his wife smoking. He stopped immediately.