Reply To: Lashon hara question

Rebshidduch: Good question.

First of all, when I respond to your posts, I explain what I think that the right thing to do is, halachally.

Second of all, it was a guy from my class and after class I asked him whether or not he was going to shul for Purim. Then I got into a discussion with him for a few minutes before going home.

It’s guy that I gave a siddur to and later felt bad about it and realized that next time I get such an urge to give, my test is to hold myself back.

And for the record, he is not a friend and I would not hang out with him.