boyswork – If all I knew about this matter was the information in this thread, I would probably agree with you 100%. However, if you have been following Rebshidduch’s other threads and posts, I suspect that you might have a different opinion.
There are people/cases in which meeting on one’s own is fine. Likewise, there are situations in which going out with an OTD boy is fine. However, there are cases in which both of these are seriously problematic. This is one of those situations (based on previous threads).