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he\she meant u cant type it in a row after a word.

and i dont think its a good idea to marry a person not in the same [give or take ofc] religius level.
but im very precise with my words, 1 need to make sure the CURRENT level of the other is about the same, coz thats what important. as i said im looking at myself and i can easily say im not less Frum than when i was in a fulltime yeshiveh…i just care for my financial future.
same goes for a guy with a past, all Poskim say if its not a thing that gonna be a part of your life after getting married- u dont even have to tell those things of ur past! this is how not important it is!!!
so a girl who think “if he was bla bla bla, i cant marry him” [although currently he is a perfect match]
is disagreeing with those Poskim! and i dont think its a good Middah for any girl.