Is it okay to marry someone who is not perfect? What if my beshert meets the girl of his dreams (me) and finds out that she spends time online posting in the coffee room? Would he still be allowed to marry me?
What if he found out that I’m imperfect in some other way (can’t think of anything but I’m sure there’s something)? Let’s say my middos aren’t perfect. Since having bad middos is not part of Judaism, does that mean I’m a goy and he shouldn’t marry me?