It all depends what the pickiness is, why are they saying no. A person in shidduchim should have a good idea of what he/she is looking for, what is most important. And then stick to shidduchim that basically fit that overall picture, without nitpicking at the less important issues. If one can prioritize what is more important, non-negotiable and what is less important, but nice to have, then one can be focused without being picky.
To go out randomly without any filtering of what is a good match and what is not, is not just a waste of time, but can lead to frustration and burn-out that can affect someone’s ability to find the right match.
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