It is possible, and it is done in chassidish circles and to a somewhat lesser extent, in Israeli Chareidi Litvish circles. The parents check out extensively, in essence do the preliminary get-to-know you dating, so by the time the couple meets, they know that this can really be someone they can marry. There is no need for prolonged dating then. Amomg chassidim, 1-2 dates is enough, Litvish can get engaged after 5 or so.
Of course western society has affected our views on dating/marriage.
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