BMYer- I’m not sure if I completely get what you are asking. Can you clarify?
In terms of going out with someone who has similar hashkafas, there are definitely other things that I need. I always tell shadchanim that personality is more important to me than hashkafa. I am beginning to question myself on that and to think that hashkafa is more important than I used to think, but I still think that personality is at least as important.