LB, that is an important point-and I think what the expert says is right, I want to stress again that just because it happened that way with me, does not mean that it always happens that way. (And even though when I dated my husband i did feel that something was different about this one right away, we still went out quite a few times until we were sure). And even if that feeling does come, it doesn’t mean that it comes on the first date or the second date, etc. But, bottom line, Hashem is in charge, and one way or another, He will make sure that you get that message that this is the right one- maybe it is a feeling you get, or maybe it is an advisor that helps you to figure it out. Just make sure that you are listening for that message.
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