Before coming on CR i had a similar question so i decided to post it here and see what happens.
Basically, i am a 20 yo bochur learning in yeshiva. Very mature and has good middos. I have a feeling that o should get married already. On the other hand people keep on telling how it’s good to learn and enjoy being single as long as you can (not forever but at least till 21-22).
I know that the second i will go in to shidduchim, I will get grabbed with a good shidduch and will have to go for it.
What do you in such a case, where you feel that it’s time to build your own home and others around you rather push you to wait?