dating YOUNGER 2.0 👦
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May 21, 2017 7:26 pm at 7:26 pm #1282153bmyerParticipant
If you were the parent of a 18-19 year old girl who just started dating would you let her date a 20 year-old bocher?
If you were the parent of a 22 year old girl who’s been dating for 2-3 years would you let her date a 20 year-old bocher?
May 21, 2017 7:26 pm at 7:26 pm #1282159YW Moderator-💯ModeratorWhat was wrong with the first one?
May 21, 2017 11:41 pm at 11:41 pm #1282251JosephParticipantYes and Yes.
May 22, 2017 7:08 am at 7:08 am #1282259e-fishParticipantNot the PC response in these shidduch-crisis-times… 20 seems a touch young; I’d have to be very convinced about the particular guy to go for 1 so young for my daughter, at age 18,19 or 22.
May 22, 2017 1:42 pm at 1:42 pm #1282637apushatayidParticipantdepends on him and her. there are 18 year olds going on 28 and there are 18 year olds who have not matured a day past 8. each shidduch suggestion should be evaluated on its own merits on both sides.
May 22, 2017 1:48 pm at 1:48 pm #1282644bmyerParticipantSo yes. But…
May 23, 2017 12:31 am at 12:31 am #1283037rebshidduchParticipantI like younger guys.
May 24, 2017 7:03 am at 7:03 am #1284134gefiltefish2ParticipantBefore coming on CR i had a similar question so i decided to post it here and see what happens.
Basically, i am a 20 yo bochur learning in yeshiva. Very mature and has good middos. I have a feeling that o should get married already. On the other hand people keep on telling how it’s good to learn and enjoy being single as long as you can (not forever but at least till 21-22).
I know that the second i will go in to shidduchim, I will get grabbed with a good shidduch and will have to go for it.
What do you in such a case, where you feel that it’s time to build your own home and others around you rather push you to wait?
May 24, 2017 8:19 am at 8:19 am #1284148WinnieThePoohParticipantGefilte, I think that the way you predict how the shidduch process will work for you and how you will decide to get married shows that perhaps you are not ready at this point. Perhaps spend some time learning about what makes a good relationship and marriage.
May 24, 2017 10:58 am at 10:58 am #1284338chabadgalParticipante-fish: so youre daughter being 18 isnt too young, but the guy being 20 is?
May 24, 2017 10:59 am at 10:59 am #1284340chabadgalParticipantgefiltefish- i suggest speaaking to one of your mashpiim or a rav. not to what all your friends are saying.
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