” someone in their late 20s has the maturity for keddushin that is sadly lacking in so many younger bochurim.”
gd: How could you possibly know that? (there are mature young people and immature old people…)
“rather than rely on handouts from others”
Who said that’s the reason he’s not learning?? He just said he doesn’t want to learn all day why are you pushing agendas and putting words in his mouth that he clearly didn’t say??!?