Where is EH 165:4?
Love can do a lot but it doesn’t just fix things. We’re also not supposed to stray after our hearts.
Also, feelings and emotions change.
And love could really be chemical in the brain when two people meet and “fall in love” but two years later when they’re partners in life, paying bills, juggling babies, parenting together, and asserting themselves with in-laws, love needs to be practical.
I too am not a fan of stigma. Yet that does not mean love is everything. If that were true, then why marry Jewish because one can also fall in love with someone who isn’t Jewish? Does love conquer all here too?
Thank you