Reply To: Shidduchim Stigma’s isn’t the way to go.

I took EH 165:4 to be Shulchan Aruch Even Haezer 165:4 but that has to do with a yevama not wanting to marry a yavam as he has a “mum” or “Mukas schin”.

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