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July 19, 2017 9:55 am at 9:55 am #1320728
iacisrmma
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Are we talking about “bachurim” over 21 or under 21? and are we talking about having one beer? If over 21, then follow your husbands approach. If under 21 and in NY, make sure you or your husband serves it to him and limit it to 1.

I would be a hypocrite if I turned down a shidduch for my daughters because a bachur occasionally drinks a beer.