TLIK
You are preaching to the choir.
Im not saying the attitude I mentioned is true, nor is it universal.
It may not even be a conscious message that is delivered.
But it is one that is received.
I speak from first and (mostly) second hand experience. There are many in the chasidic world who would disown their children if they went to college even if they “remain as kadosh and tahor as those who work as klai kodesh”
This makes organizations like Project Makom all the more important, and is precisely why they exist!
But it is also why they have a harder time recruiting than say Footsteps