Ubiq -“wait, so when sombody is missing it is also assur to call the police?”
Typical Ubiq comment – putting words in my mouth!
“Otherwise your comment is a non-sequitor. Mamele was responding to LC’s critique that police werent called in a kidnapping situation. She replied that callign police earleir wouldnt help. You agreed then added “Some posters think everything is a Chumra – there’s no such thing as Halacha.” which leaves me puzzled, what halacha would have been violated had police been called”
Your comprehension is failing you – as you get older!
I was then going back to the OP.