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Yes, it certainly DOES explain, as i said that the girls only go out dating because it’s in style, they have absolutely no intention of getting engaged to the boy they’re dating, today Channele is dating (along with her cellphone) Moishi, tomorrow it’ll be Suri dating Moishi, & so on & so forth, & this will go on for the next year or 2, as long as she’ll be happy to tell her friends that she’s dating,
& the reason why there are more boys in the Chassidish world? technology is to be blamed, they get influenced by their so called friends who have smartphones, they get jealous, & from this point they go downhill,
In the same time i will inform you something with regards to divorcees, they are quite rightly supported by a group who gather weekly, each discusses with their friends all the suggestions, & again with a recording of the boy they met, & here we go again, they get influenced & discouraged by their friends who’s listening to the recording, & the guy who heads this group teaches them how to pick & choose, but he gives them the wrong advice, its basically a divorced womans club, gathering to discuss about this & that boy, having a good laugh, & this boy can now forget about getting married again in the near future, since he’s now in all the divorcees mouth,,, they all know his מעלות & חסרונות,,,,,,