Reply To: “Marriage counseling hastens divorce far more often than it saves a marriage”

Some times both are to blame some times more one then the other and sometimes one person is great and the other is to blame. You can’t make blanket statements about blame. Each case is different and should be treated as such. We all have biases towards certain things whether that is to favor the man or woman or being sensitive to certain types of abuse. You need someone who is very good at this and I’d venture to guess that most therapists and Rabbis aren’t experts in this area. There are lots of people with good intentions but who don’t know what they are doing.