I’m sorry Joseph
I missed that line, thank you for pointing it out. (although it was after your original comment)
yytz
“But we don’t demand they leave, even if they ask us what they should do — that’s up to the individual”
Im not sure if you meant it as simply as stated. but of course if a Yid asks “what they should do” it is absolutely unacceptable to tell him he can be oiver an isur. On this point Joseph is correct
If he deosnt ask and you are helping him keep other mitzvos, the intermarrige can be dealt with later. But if he asks