Who/what was this in response to?
Syag.
but for some reason, she didn’t think of it or was uncomfortable
Here we go again with your emotional heterim. Being uncomfortable is a valid excuse to skip a brachah acharonah?
I would be a bit hesitant about the website idea.
I don’t think checking the Star K brachos list is any worse than calling some random rav on a halachah hotline.