BoysWork,
In some of the more modern shuls that I davened in, the mispalelim are much more respectful during davening and laining. For the past couple of years, I have been davening in a small minyan in someone’s home (out of convenience). This minyan has attracted many chasidish young married men, who seem to think that the minyan is a social club.
That was a totally unnecessary juxtaposition. You could have contrasted long shul davening with no talking vs. quick davening in someone’s home with talking and made your point just fine, without disparaging other Jews.