apy: You were asked three times whether you acted upon your own daas or asked a shaila, and what you asked, and you deflected an answer each time. Even now when pushed you simply say you “asked” something but you still decline to say what you asked and what the answer is. You can’t blame folks for being skeptical in the absence of a response. What was the exact shaila and what was the exact response? Whatever it is, is fine. No one needs names, we’ll take your word, but please simply be clear when commenting.
You received a psak that it is okay to give Christmas presents to non-Jews on Christmas? Only around Christmas? Only around New Years? Only if it is a New Years gift but not a Christmas gift? These nuances make a difference.
In either event, please zats moichel for the acidic tone my comments came across.