“Can we all agree that neither party being in physical discomfort
makes for a better dating experience for both of them?”
Define physical discomfort. Life is full of discomforts. Do we all need to be in climate controlled conditions every minute? Can I walk if I’m a little tired?
And what do you think of the situations where the boy drives an hour for the date and the girl insists that they don’t have the date in her neighborhood because heaven forbid people might see her so he has to drive another half an hour to the next Jewish town. That’s discomfort for the boy.